More Than Community
Joan, who describes her younger self as “a sort of angsty kid,” journeyed through doubt, atheism, self-exploration, and transition before discovering a “different kind of Christianity” later in life. In 2024, Joan joined her local UCC church in Phoenix, AZ, where she was celebrated for who God made her to be and baptized into her new faith.
Joan first noticed The Open Table Connection campus ministry while scoping out the University of New Mexico. “I drove past a little house covered in pride flags and thought, I’ll probably end up going there someday,” she laughed. When she met Pastor Rhonda at the campus club fair and learned about the Open Table Connection, “it just felt right.” She began attending Thursday dinners, where she said she found “a wonderful sense of community on campus.”
“Community isn’t just something that feels good, though,” Joan emphasized. “It’s something that keeps you safe.” As a trans woman finding her place in a new city, that sense of safety meant everything. “I have one less thing to constantly worry about,” she shared. “I know I have people who care about me and a roof over my head where I can be my true self. That’s a big deal.”
Her time living at Luther House has deepened that feeling of belonging. “It’s the little things,” Joan said softly. “Coming home after class and chatting with my roommates, sharing a meal, hearing about their days. It’s a space where I feel entirely comfortable. That is rare for me.” She also finds spiritual meaning in the shared meals. “Communion is such a beautiful reminder that we’re called to sit down and eat together, to share what sustains us, both food and Christ, and that is what we do on Thursdays.”
Today, Joan describes herself as more confident, purposeful, and grounded in her faith. “Having this environment to flourish in,” she reflected, “has translated into every area of my life. As a student, as a professional, as a young woman learning how to be in the world.” She credits The Open Table with giving her both spiritual and emotional security. “It’s a place that inspires me to be the change I want to see,” Joan said, smiling. “I’m confident in the woman I’m becoming, and I’m very excited to meet her.”